There are many things a woman looks at in order to get an impression of a man's personality before she decides to get involved with him. She might analyze his clothes, his demeanor and the way he treats other people, but the things she finds desirable or undesirable may not always be obvious to him.
One of the tools women use to take mental inventory of men is to assess whether or not they’re worth keeping based on who they’re attracted to. Women are intensely interested in knowing what types of girls their man finds attractive — hence; the landmine, yet so innocently posed question, "Which of my friends do you find hot?"
The roots of this preoccupation are twofold:
1) Your girl compares herself to every woman she sees (especially
those you find attractive) because she wants to see how she stacks up.
2) She sees the girls you're into as a reflection of the kind of guy you are.
We take this latter fact to be especially true in the case of which celebrities guys find hot, because these are some of the only women we reveal our true feelings about. Much of your sexual appetite can be foretold by your preference for super-controlling types, or sweet, girl-next-door babysitter babes. Below are some of the favorite common celebrity babes, what they represent, and how women judge you based on which type you're into.
1 - The Jolie
Her type: The rebellious/bad girlWhat this says about you: Men who crush on Angelina Jolie are often seen as secure in themselves intellectually, because any relationship with this smokin' hot actress would involve a challenge to the intellect. But, because this crush is so forward and obviously uninhibited, the men who lust for her may be those who have trouble expressing their own desires sexually, and enjoy it when a woman takes the reigns.
Like Jolie, Kirsten Dunst seamlessly pulls off a controlled, pragmatic and intelligent temptress vibe. She can also be a bit intimidating to men. Demi Moore takes the bad girl role to a whole new snap-you-in-half level, upping the ante for men who like powerful, naughty women.
When you tell a girl that you’re into these intense celebrities, you’re sending an equally intense message about your sexual desires. Women are often attracted to the idea of playing this powerful (and steamy) sex kitten role in a sexual relationship, but no woman wants to be your security crutch, so make sure she also knows you can take control sometimes.
Find out whether you like the good girl, the wierd girl or the party animal...
2 - The Aniston
Her type: The good girlWhat this says about you: Since the time she made her big hit as Rachel on Friends, Jennifer Aniston has churned up images of high school sweethearts in micro-mini cheerleading skirts. She comes across as naïve, sweet and often seems helpless, but with a naughty side just waiting to be uncovered.
Likewise, Jessica Alba has a name for being sweet and sexy all in one. She's got the air of a little girl who needs your support — but will reward you well for it. She demands respect, but is saucy at the same time. Your girlfriend will appreciate your crush on the good girls because they don't come off as having an empty image, rather they give off an air of a sweet, girl next door type.
Naomi Watts and her 1,000 watt grin evokes the same images. Watts gets her ever-so-curious journalistic self into all kinds of jams, and can‘t you imagine being the hero to her distress? A guy who's into this kind of woman would need to take care of her, to be strong yet gentle, and women love those qualities in men.
3 - The Lohan
Her type: The par-tay girlWhat this says about you: This girl likes to party. She's in-your-face, she's arrogant, and she shows off her external assets in a most unabashed way. There is no question why men would find this package attractive; however, both this girl's age, and her all-night kegger reputation can make those who crush on her come off as shallow and noncommittal.
If Lindsay Lohan's reputation of bouncing from guy to guy and starting catfights over each one doesn't scare away a man, he's probably okay with the idea of being used up and thrown away. This is not the image you want to give to a possible new sweetheart.
Two more of this variety are Paris Hilton and Tara Reid. Both share with Lohan the propensity to catfight and the love for partying. In fact, Hilton and Lohan actually share catfights, as well as the spoiled wealthy-youngster attitude. This means doing it in the bathroom stall and never saying, "’til death do us part" — not a welcome message to women who want to settle down.
4 - The Barrymore
Her type: Eccentric and unusualWhat this says about you: While Drew Barrymore does have some accomplishments under her belt, including acting from the time she was a child, her tumultuous life has made her seem, well, different (not anyone can marry Tom Green, after all). Your attraction to a quirky girl will create a feeling of appreciation in your leading lady. If you can like a girl who wears her oddities on her sleeve, then your girlfriend will feel like she can be herself around you.
With strange roles and life histories alike, Winona Ryder and Christina Ricci are other oddball pinups. Ryder, with movies like Beetlejuice and Edward Scissorhands and a known penchant for stealing, clearly lets her inner-strange out, and Ricci picks roles as diverse and unconventional as she is.
A crush on this type of woman indicates a love for spontaneity, and an anything-goes attitude, which is fun for women. As long as your girl doesn’t fear she’ll wake up to find you’ve arranged a séance in her living room, a little character can go a long way.
So you're into blonde bombshells like Jessica Simpson? Don't tell your girlfriend...
5 - The Simpson
Her type: The blonde “hot-ditz” bombshellWhat this says about you: Because there is little to be known of Jessica
Simpson but her, well, "outer attributes," a crush on her will tell your woman that this is all you're after — at least in a crush. Jessica Simpson can be whiny and spoiled (as evidenced in many of her Newlyweds outbursts), and many men have seen little of her inner qualities besides her stint on The Dukes of Hazzard.
Since a vacuous, whiny girl is not high on most men's wish lists, your girl can only assume that Jess's looks alone have hooked you. Other blondes whose looks might have caught you: Sienna Miller or Kate Bosworth. Both have made few contributions to their careers that don‘t depend on their looks and shiny-go-happy attitudes, so it would seem to women that the attraction stems solely from bottle-blonde hairdos and bikini bodies. This type of shallow lust is not a particularly desirable trait in a man.
choose your crushes wisely
While most of these women can be seen as good or bad to your girlfriend, there are a bunch of celebrity crushes that could lead you straight to the single life. Saying you’re into Pamela Anderson (fake, early-'90s) or Hilary Duff (unless you have a 10-year-old daughter) is not going to win you any awards. If she is arrogant, dirty or outlandish (read: Shannen Doherty, Christina Aguilera, and Heather Graham), your woman might reflect those traits onto you.All this considered; it's doubtful she'll run the other way based on this alone. She does recognize celebrity crushes are not always the truest test of a man's tastes; these starlets are made-up and sexed-out beyond all ordinary recognition. But if you're trying to impress a girl who's new on your horizon, be careful who you cite as your optimal fantasy fling or she will fling you right out the window.
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